Dating Tips For Men: Starting Conversations With Women During The Daytime Both Extremely Important, and a Minor Fact
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Today I'll be going over some dating tips you can use to start conversations with women.
Let's say two men both try to pick up the same women, on the same day.
The first man walks up casually to the woman, has the right delivery, but ends up not getting her phone number.
The second man walks up to the woman, has the right deliver, talks with her for over an hour, gets her number - and a date that night.
Want to know the difference?
The most important thing to remember is that when you approach a woman during the daytime, it's completely different.
When a woman is in a club, she's expecting to get hit on. She's probably with her friends, which is going to cause her to act differently, and her guard is up - way up.
In order to successfully pick up a woman at a nightclub, you have to overcome her friends, overcome all of the other men, and let her guard down.
However, during the daytime, the woman isn't expecting to get hit on. She didn't think that she'd meet a man while shopping for pants, drinking coffee, or walking to work.
She's probably alone, and doesn't have any pressure from friends, and you're not competing with any other men.
The biggest advantage that you have, though, is that you're catching her by
surprise - her guard is completely down. However, this is also something you must keep in mind at all times. Why?
These are the three big things to remember...
1) Comfort
2) Trust
3) Safety
In today's society, it's becoming less and less safe for an attractive woman to go
out on her own: many women are very, very jumpy about strange men that they don't know.
That's why you have to remember those three things... if you don't make her feel comfortable, win her trust, and make her feel completely safe, you won't have an ice cream cone's chance in hell.
You've seen it in a hundred different chick-flicks... a man meeting a woman on the street, in the mall, at a café...
they fall in love, and end up getting married and living happily every after in a comfortable-sized suburb home with an average-priced SUV.
When you approach a woman in an every day situation, it's like your feeding their unconscious dream to be the woman in the movie - the one who falls in love, gets married, is the envy of all of her single friends and lives happily every after.
If you're also unsure of how to approach a woman during the day... well, there are many different ways to try it.
Here's just one of the many ways you can enter a woman's world, and keep her safe, comfortable, and build her trust...
Start walking up to her, and when you're just a few steps away, get her attention. You don't want to come on too strong, and surprise her.
A simple 'Excuse Me, Miss' would work just fine. Make sure she sees you before you get too close, or she won't feel safe, and possibly simply ignore you and walk away.
The best thing to do is to connect with her right away; if you can almost read her mind, she's going to think 'Wow, what a guy'.
You should say something along the lines of 'Well, I know this is completely random',or even 'I know that most guys don't just walk up to girls like you'.
That's exactly what she's going to be thinking, and she'll instantly feel like you're in tune with her.
The next step is to compliment her, but do it a little differently than just 'uhh...you're pretty...'. The delivery of the line is more than what you say.
Build up excitement by pausing, and drawing it out slightly. You'll build the feeling of butterflies in her stomach - a sort of tension that's extremely similar to what she'd feel if she were attracted to you, and you were about to kiss her for the very first time.
As you two talk more, make sure to get her involved in the conversation - never speak to her, but speak with her. As her simple questions, like where she's from, or what she does for a living.
She'll appreciate that you don't want her life story, and she can learn a little
about you without having to fumble for answers.
Up until this point, you probably shouldn't have said your name to her. You say something along the lines of 'Oh, jeez, I'm sorry, I didn't introduce myself. I'm Oliver', and shake her hand.
The shaking of hands is the social stamp of approval - you two aren't strangers anymore, and you've moved into the status of acquaintance.
There you have it. Five steps to meet women anywhere.
In our next article, I'll show you how to captivate women with your personality: no matter who you are, or what you're into, you can have them begging for more!
Want to learn more ways to easily approach a woman, get her number, and finally be able to have the dream date you've always wanted?
While this technique is a great one, there are many more in my ebook, Daytime Pick-up Revealed.
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Until Next Time,
Oliver T. Your Personal Dating Coach,
